May 19, 2012

Emmett’s Story

Emmett Culley

I’ve been married three times before Denise. First time for 20 years, the second time for one year, and the third time for three years. I have two grown daughters from the first marriage. In the fifteen years since my first divorce I had mostly been trying to “get that relationships back”. I dated, married, dated, married Whew!. I became tired of that cycle, but not yet tired of looking for the perfect mate.

I was considered to be good looking. I was friendly, authentically chivalrous, talented (could fix anything), professionally and financially successful, and generally nice to be around (so others said). Yet I couldn’t seem to connect with “the one”, no matter what I did.

I wasn’t exactly tired of looking; however I was beginning to doubt that I would ever find “the one.” After all, women were crazy (or at least indecipherable), and I was afraid I would never be able to really trust one again. I had a lot more questions than I had answers, and it only seemed to be getting worse.

Then a good friend suggested I look into a course he had recently completed. He was sure I would get something out of it that would make a difference in my waning search for romance and love. I guess I really wasn’t THAT tired of looking, because I signed up to take that course the very next day.

In that course, the first thing I learned was that women are NOT crazy. They are just different from me. I found out a few other things as well, but I’ll save those for the actual Relationships 123 Inspired Relationships Program.

With Denise, I have found the ideal relationship, the perfect mate, a partner extraordinaire. Taking that course changed everything! But as I look back, I see how thinking “women might be crazy” could have kept me from getting there. Yes?

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