As promised we are not your average relationship program and we are not people who sell relationship services.
We exist for one reason and one reason only. We have learned some profound insights and skills for how to be the best partner and make your partner happy. It’s our method for teach it what will save you years of time. Why learn it the hard way, when we have developed a program to teach you in a way that will alter your life. alter your approach and give you instant understanding.
Think of this as MUST HAVE relationship training. This relationship plan will save you from divorce, feeling alone in a relationship, feeling like you can’t win with your partner, or simply feeling disconnected.
Ever wonder what is the formula for successful relationship?
How do people stay in love their entire life?
We know and we have a life altering way of teaching it to you!
What does Relationships 123 stand for?
Learning to be great at a relationship is as easy as 1, 2, 3!
1. Start with Solid Partnership Skills
People are not born with excellent relationships skills. They learn them. Since most of our parent’s model for relationship has not led the country into glowing success, clearly there is a need to learn a fresh another approach. Ward and June Cleaver didn’t have a clue and neither do most. The lines for gender rules have been blurred and as a result, we have a better chance of relationships failure than success. Clearly the divorce statistics support that statement.
- Learn a new way to read your partner that is more in sync with their wiring.
- Learn the basics that women want and don’t have the freedom to say
- Learn what inspires men greater than sex
- Learn how to create greater intimacy
- Learn common traps that lead to all relationship failures
- Learn the simple things that will eliminate bickering and fighting
- Learn a new model for partnership that you both are compelled to want.
It will change your mind and open up new levels of communication and intimacy. You will leave with a model that will give you greater success as a partner.
This is not therapy. If you have psychological or addiction issues and need the care and guidance of a therapist, you are not ready to hear this. This program is only suitable for people who are either looking for love, wanting to repair their relationship, or in love and wanting to nurture and protect the relationship from becoming stale or insignificant. It’s for most of you.
2. Choose to be Adored and Honored
Don’t take this for granted. Being in love with a partner that adores you and honors you is not a fairy tale, it’s respect and the foundation for couples who thrive on their love for each other. If the person you have chosen does not treat you as though they adore, honor and respect you, it’s time you take one of 3 actions.
- Start by changing your own expectations and tone. Some where you learned patterns of self non importance. You are attracting this by accepting it. You never say forget this. You don’t realize that you have agreed to be neglected, taken for granted or ignored, because you don’t know how to powerfully get your partner to take you seriously. Your method for being heard and taken seriously is not working for you. It’s time you learn how!
- Learn if your standards are too low. Find out if you can’t attract a partner who adores and respects because somewhere you were told you were not worthy. Or perhaps one of your parents taught you by example or they neglected you and now you think neglect is love. Some people need to work with a therapist to work on these issues. Many times we have been successful in teaching people how to change their patterns, rather than analyze why they are the way they are. If you want to know why, see a therapist. If you want to move forward hire a coach.
- Walk away! Take a stand. Tired of talking about it till you are blue in the face. Well stop talking and start putting your convictions where you mouth was. Not sure how to do that? Don’t know if you are strong enough? Some clients will hire us to support them and guide them to finally do what it takes to honor themselves by saying enough is enough. Results: First they are empowered for finally honoring and respecting themselves. Second, sometimes they finally get their partner to wake up and hear them. Or sometimes they finally let go of someone who never really loved them anyway.
3. Believe!
Believe in yourself, your relationship, your partner. The freedom to communicate is integral to a healthy and whole relationship. As soon as you stop communicating, you stopped believing.. and then you are lost. Great relationships are not always easy. At best they have peaks and lulls. Passion comes with it’s own challenges. Never take your relationship for granted. If you do, it will lose to the other priorities in your life. Keeping a relationship a priority requires effort and dedication.
We provide you with practices and insights to recognize when your partner is starting to drift away. And the confidence and communication skills to bring them back. Commonly we hear couples say, “but I told them, and they don’t listen or don’t care”. I can tell in an instant if you have a partner that cares. There are signs that are present in every healthy relationship. If that patterns are there, then you have all the potential to turn this around. But NOW you need to change your skills and your approach. It’s time to realize they are not listening, therefore you communication skills don’t work. Don’t give up, stop repeating the same conversations over and over. Instead get some help!
I recently heard a quote from Dr. Laura Schlesinger that I agree with: “Unless you are dealing with addictions, or abuse or major psychological issues, you should do everything in your power to save your relationship.”
Take Action
What are you waiting for? You think you should continue to figure this out on your own? Or here is a typical approach to repairing or preventing the unraveling of a relationship- Go on a vacation! Yeah, that should take care of everything. Spend thousands on dollars and come back still with the same relationship skills and patterns. Nothing will change. It’s a fantasy. Relationships are like health and cars. If you ignore the health and well being, it will some day cost you. If you ignore your health, later in life you will have pain and malfunctions that are the result of neglect and deterioration. If you forget to maintain your car, it will cost you later. A well maintained car can last, trouble free for well over 100, 000 miles.
Growing up, my father never taught me to maintain my car. He took it for granted. No surprise, his cars never served him well. He often blamed it on the car being a lemon or the mechanics were crooks. But I married a man who was vigilant about maintaining his cars. Regular oil changes and never missed a major scheduled tune-up. At first I thought he was anal and over the top. But all his cars lasted. He never had to replace anything major. If I had never met someone who had better car skills than I would have followed the patterns I learned from my father, which would have resulted in many cars and costly repairs. Relationships are no different. So the question is who are you going to follow? Do you continue to follow the same relationship patterns of your parents or of most people who fail and get divorced. OR do you invest in learning from experts who have the relationship you want and who have a track record for successfully altering the patterns of hundreds of others.
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We promise you, if we can’t help you, we won’t take your money. We are not about money. We will offer this program again in the future because we have a vision. We feel that if all people learn these skills then they will be happy in their relationships. If they are happy in their relationships, then they will have the energy to do other great things with their life. They will be great examples for their kids, and their kids will grow up without the dysfunctional models for relationships that we all inherited. We believe we are part of the grass roots efforts for an awakening for healthy and prospering relationships. That is our dream and why we do what we do.
Come join us! Register for Relationships123 workshops and more info on our email signup form, located on the right website bar. You wont regret it!
