February 22, 2012

Tip For Men: Ask Her For a List

A woman’s wants and desires are so vast it would be impossible to cover them in a page, or even a book.  Here we have some hints about how to succeed with a special approach.

Women have high expectations that men will “know” or can “guess” what females like.  Women think that men are just like women and should be able to notice and observe what they like and want. Men, it’s not your fault that you don’t notice.  Your wiring is designed to enable you to narrow your focus and block out any distractions that might interfere with your production cycles.

BUT, this does not prevent men from needing to win, and it doesn’t excuse them from encouraging and fueling woman’s desires, passions and appetites.  This fueling will result in a very happy woman.  So the clue we offer men today, is to ask your woman for a list of what she wants.  Do it like this:

“Honey, I would like you to write down a list of several things you want to do this weekend.  Give me lots of ideas so I can surprise you with my choice.  The more details you want to give the better.”

Now if you were to take on this practice, I promise, you will find yourself on the receiving end of her delight.

If you think money and material objects are what women need most, you are flat wrong.  That kind of thinking will guarantee your failure in a relationship.  This is why wealthy or successful men who think that simply being the financial provider is fulfilling their duty as a partner, will find themselves with a very unhappy woman — a woman who will eventually leave.

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