First, your visit to our site is no accident. We created this website and programs for women like you, who sense there is more, and are willing to reach out and find the answers. You believe it’s possible and now you are going to find out how.
The most common reason for inadequate relationships are due to a really big short fall. Women must recognize their power, and own that they are the source of happy relationships! A women makes the best partner when she is:
- Powerful, but not dominating
- Loving but not a doormat
- Appreciative but not manipulative or inauthentic
- Great at asking for what she wants but not a princess
- Intimate and affectionate without compromising her own needs
Our program is designed to empower women so they feel comfortable and aware of the power they have. If you never learn how to embrace and develop this power, you are missing out on the greatest gift you are given.
Women who have learned these skills report:
- Feeling more confidence and self-respect
- Awareness of how much men are attracted to them now
- Awareness of how much men love women and how to recognize the good guys
- How simple it is to be the kind of woman that their man responds to
- This works on all men, and it has helped them with work, and dealing with their children
- It’s as though someone gave her a new pair of glasses
- How she impacts men is now profound, and simple
It would be crazy to go through life and never know how to release this power in you. You already have it, you either need to fine tune it or release it from within.
Questions:
- Do you even know your power as a woman?
- Do you even know how to use your power?
- Did you give it away, as a way of making peace?
- Do you think a great partner is being easy and low maintenance?
If you are willing to recognize the power you have on men and how you have the answers that men want, then you can embark on a road to the kind of relationship that you always thought was possible, but did not know how to tap into.
In one weekend, you will see your role completely different than you ever have before.
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No matter the current stage of a relationship, it’s time to get training!
Whether it be:
Honeymoon stage – You are happy and close, but you don’t know the pitfalls to avoid, and therefore don’t really know how to sustain the happiness.
Beginning – when you start to notice he does not pay as much attention to you.
Progressive – there are disconnects in your communication, happiness and intimacy
Troubled – Arguing is the mainstay of the relationship.
Stagnant – you live separate lives
Complacent – you don’t even talk to each other any more
Time bomb – You are unhappy and he does not even notice
Woman are sabotaging their own happiness and they can’t even see it.
As trained relationship coaches, we see clearly all the pitfalls that men and women fall into. They are easy to for us to see and easy for you to learn. Once you learn them you will see them in others. Learning it is like knowing the truth and then wondering why you were never told this before. They are so simple. So why hasn’t anyone ever told you before? Because while it’s easy, you can’t figure it out on your own. Even reading about it will leave you wondering how to implement it.
We developed a process that makes it simple to learn!
Hundreds of women have learned this and are amazed by the impact on their life!
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Men respond to this new woman’s model.
Some of you think you want your man to change. If you are single, you want to stop attracting the wrong men. Women in relationships often come to us to help fix their man. Surprise!
When women take this on, their men change!
Why is that? Because you are not aware of the ways in which you are causing men to:
- Resist you.
- Take you for granted.
- Get frustrated by you.
- Ignore you.
- Tolerate you.
- Feel emasculated by you.
You can guess all day long, and you will never figure it out on your own. Even if your friends told you to your face, you would not know how to implement it. And without it, even the greatest guy on earth will eventually fall into the same patterns as most relationships because women have no idea they are training men to ignore them. Men can’t win if you don’t know these skills.
This is shocking!
Most women’s start a relationship off THE WRONG WAY. Unbeknownst to you, you are training men to be bad partners. It’s crazy because you think you are being loving, and nurturing, when you are actually setting men up to fail.
The impact of how you start your relationship will either show up immediately, or may show up after the first year or even a few years. Ignoring this, or using the same approach, will just make it worse.
Yes men play a part, and of course we have training for them too. But you don’t see how you started it. You had a golden opportunity in the beginning, but no one ever taught you this. And that is why there is such a high relationship failure rate.
Learning this could save you from:
- Heartache
- Arguing
- Being taken for granted
- Feeling trapped in a bad marriage
- Feeling lonely in your relationship
- Attracting the wrong men
- Divorcing from a marriage worth salvaging
- Wasting years with a man that was never worthy of you
- Years of therapy that is going no where
- Working on the wrong issues
- Destroying your family by being a bad role model
- Wondering whether you should stick it out
Have a breakthrough in happiness?
I am sure you have heard that you are responsible for your own happiness. Yes, but we also teach a model for partnering in each other’s happiness.
But the bigger point to look at right now is if you are aware of what happiness is for you!
How about if you spend the next week writing down what makes you happy. Some of you won’t know where to start. Then make a list about what you want. Even more telling. Come up with a list of 100 things you want. It’s not easy. Now, if you don’t know what you want and what makes you happy, why is it that you expect your man to know?
What do you want?
Most women are ineffective at asking for what they want. Proof: Do you get what you want? Or, do you think it’s just easier to do it yourself?
When women are poor at asking for what they want the following happens:
- You get something other than what you asked for.
- He will do nothing rather than risk getting it wrong.
- You will have to do it yourself.
- You will emasculate a man.
- You will lose intimacy and closeness.
- You will argue a lot.
- You will never ask, and he will ignore you.
- You will miss out on the joy of being each others dream partner.
- You keep asking the wrong way, and now you sound like a nag.
- You start using manipulations because you don’t know how to ask effectively.
Men can’t read your mind!
Partnership Skills
Why do you think there is such a high divorce rate out there? Incompatibility, drifting apart, choosing the wrong partner, being neglected, are not your problem after attending this weekend. Suddenly you will notice it everywhere. And you will know what is going wrong, because for the first time you will see it from a different vantage point. How can we make such a bold statement? Simple, 90% of our clients share how everything has changed and how happy they are. Happy, with greater ease and more passion.
It’s not too late! You can turn this around.
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We lead by example – most people marvel over our marriage.
The one thing we hear over and over from people during the program, is that they want a relationship like ours. When we lead, or coach other couples, they are inspired because they see we have an off the charts happy marriage. What is the secret to our success? Is it just because we found the partner of our dreams and therefore it just comes easily? Seriously! All relationships require work and maintenance. And as you can read in our profiles, we had our own history of failed relationships. But then we got trained! And that training woke us up! Wow, it’s that easy! That is why we travel to offer these programs, so others can learn what we learned, and have what we have.
This is why we are relationship coaches.
We saw how easy it is, and were like two honeymooners. But then after time, we we still like honeymoomers, and our friends wanted to know our secret. They wanted what we have. Since they saw us in our relationships they could see the change. So they asked us what we learned. At first we would refer them to training we went to. But as we continued to see the glaring mistakes men and women make, we felt a strong desire to help others. We started out showing only our friends. But then their friends saw the difference in their relationship, and wanted to learn too. Before you know it, we were leading courses once a month. I gave up my job. My husband who loves to teach this to men and women as much as I do, suggested we start a website. We are now in our fifth year. We have led over four hundred men and women. Couples and singles attend. We are blessed in phenomenal results. Even surpassing the people who we learned from. It’s a gift. We can’t deny this is what we were meant to do.
Time for you to take action. We offer training to women on this site: SoulMatePlan
Great relationships don’t happen by themselves. Waiting till you have more time, a better job, or hoping a baby or vacation will help you to connect? Yes, sometimes therapy helps. And sometimes therapy is the right answer. Because if your needs require a therapist, we will recommend it to you. But, most of the people who are referred to us just want this information! You will thank us for the rest of your life. You will never forget what you learned. It WILL change your life! It will change the dynamics of your relationships. The benefits will trickle down into different aspects of your life including parenting, work, and interactions with the opposite sex.
